Emotions and Masculinities

Abstract

This article explores the intersection of masculinity and emotiveness, challenging the stereotypical notion that boys and men should suppress their emotions to conform to traditional gender roles. Drawing on perspectives from gender studies, it highlights how boys are conditioned from infancy to prioritize traits deemed "masculine," such as competitiveness and emotional restraint, while discouraging behaviors considered "feminine," like empathy and emotional expression. By referencing the works of sociologists like Giddens and the psychological insights of Zimbardo and Coulombe, the article reveals how these gender expectations are perpetuated through societal norms, education, and even rituals like circumcision, which symbolically reinforce male toughness. It also addresses the broader implications of this conditioning, such as the impact on men's emotional intelligence, mental health, and interpersonal relationships. The article argues that the rigid constructs of masculinity are not only limiting but also detrimental, suggesting a need for a paradigm shift in the way society raises boys. The paper calls for a re-evaluation of how boys are socialized, promoting an inclusive approach to gender that benefits both men and women by breaking down harmful stereotypes and fostering emotional growth. KEYWORDS: emotion, gender socialization, gender stereotypes, emotional intelligence